"I have seen the enemy, and he is us." (or something like that). Who originally said that? I suppose I could look it up...
So, in light of the past few days events -- the anniversary of 9/11, and the rioting/killing of an American diplomat and three others in Libya -- I made the mistake of engaging in a conversation with a conservative friend on facebook. My "friend" is someone that I really don't know all that well -- we did a show together many moons ago -- but from what I know of him, he is a good guy with a big heart. I often disagree with his posts, but he generally states his thoughts/opinions very respectfully, and I try to do the same.
His friends, on the other hand, are an entirely different breed. Before the internet, I really had no idea that such people actually existed. The following exchange is in response to a post my friend made about 9/11 (you know, the general conservative line about the Obama administration being weak on Islam/Muslims). The italicized lines are as written by a friend of my conservative friend. I've deleted his name, obviously.
We
need a leader that has a pair of brass balls. We need a leader that is
Christian..... We need a leader that is not afraid to call upon the
christian soldiers to rise up and fight for god's biding on this
earth............. God destroyed on city that was a hot bed of sin...
maybe he needs to do the same in Washington DC.. is there not one good
man amoung them to save that City ? ?
I then responded:
--thanks for demonstrating true Christian virtue. I believe in God -- I
believe in a God of love -- I can't believe in a petty creator who is
jealous and angry and destroys his creations. And I can't believe in
any religion where believers talk about "fighting for god's bidding on
this earth" (how does that kind of talk make you any different from
radical Muslims?) I've seen religion do much good in the world -- I
am not as adamantly against it as my partner {Onion, who is an atheist, had also responded to the post} -- but folks like you
remind me all of the time why I just can't be a part of any church. My
church is love. If you were truly a Christian, as you claim to be, your
doctrine would be love. Just love. Let God take care of the rest.
Peace to you.
.....Radical
Islamist........sometimes it is necessary to kill off a group of people
in order to save lives ....I believe in being a good neighbor an all
that goes with it... and also the ten commandants....but when it comes
to eye for an eye... I believe in if you toss a rock at me I will drop a
house on you.....Back in the day if you miss behaved you were set
outside of the camp or the tribe....you had your chance and then you
were tossed to the wind.....today there is no moral hazard... just do as
you wish and the hell with everything else..... do we really want to
live this way ? ? I have given people chances and then I set them
outside my camp.... I believe in being strict and swift....We are seeing
a problem in the mid-east now because of our weak leadership in this
government....we have a leader that is dead set on bringing this country
down and is a so called Muslim extremist
himself....................................... We live in rough times
and in these time it calls for swift action and we have to close the
camp or the borders and circle the wagons....we might have to kill our
aggressors and I would do so in a heart beat....... now don't give me
this holier than thou act like some brainless person that is a good
follower and not a good leader..... Christians have fought for human
rights and have promoted God's will on earth....for a bunch of years....
and good follower's will do so in the future.... We are in our
declining years.. we must set the example for the next group of
Christian leader to follow....it must include being strict and demanding
respect for the elders and also follow bring the children up an teach
respect....Example... children in some case's should be seen but no
heard while the adults are having conversation.... speak only when
spoken to............................................I could go on with
this but I think I have given you enough to go on...I could go into the
sins of women in marriage and how these aggressive women in society
break up the homes.. the wife and I have been married for 42 years....
so we must be doing something right.... women of today are taught to be
aggressive and no listen to their husbands.... there can only be one
captain of the ship....and marriage was meant to be a patriarch type
house hold... it has worked to 100's of years....when you marry you must
take on your roll in the marriage ...just like our parents did and
their parents did before.... my parents got married in 1935 and were
together till mom passed in 2002.... so do the math.....it is high time
to restore the old values and then stop the madness.....Weakness is not a
option...action speaks a thousand words.... Love and peace and joy only
go so far.... so I don't want to hear your BS on that.... when you
start preaching that it shows you have no backbone... so grow and
backbone and learn to stand up and let people know wher you draw the
line in the sand.
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I essentially responded to this by saying that I'm sure he's a fine husband, neighbor and friend, but if he's an example of a modern Christian, then God help us all.
Honestly, how does one respond to this kind of thinking? How is his thinking (and I'm not saying "actions" -- not yet, anyway) any different from that of the Taliban?
Let me be clear -- I KNOW that this guy does not speak for all Christians. I know too many who are loving and kind, and would totally condemn this kind of thinking. But here's the thing -- this guy is one of MANY. He's not the first such person I've encountered through this wonderful thing called "facebook" (he's just the scariest -- I'd post his picture, but that wouldn't be right or fair). So I can't just write this guy off as some looney living back in a cave somewhere.
He lives right here in Ohio. Lucky us.
Margie - I read that whole exchange and was flabbergasted. Just unbelievable. You were coherent, patient, intelligent and posted responses only with what my dear sweet deceased Mother would have called the patience of Job. I too thought the same thing - do people like this really exist? Certainly not in my town! Well, what an eye opener. I have really had to be selective about friending, but it is hard when friends of people you really want to remain friends with are looney tunes. Thanks for your perspective. I admire your restraint.
ReplyDeleteKaren -- thanks for the comments! The funny thing is -- there is what I write, and then there's the "oh my God, I cannot fucking believe this!" that I'm yelling to myself as I'm holding my head in my hands. I really want to be kind and understanding and open to ALL views, but man, some people make it REALLY hard!
ReplyDeleteI was just saying to David that I can't believe people REALLY think in a way different from us and I can't believe that we aren't right. I guess that douche-bag feels the same way.
ReplyDeleteI really don't understand how people can live with hate and non-acceptance in their hearts and minds.